Listen to your elders…

We’ve been taught at a very young age to listen to our elders because they know better. And like most children, our usual response to that statement was a very defiant eye roll.

As I have grown and somewhat matured, I’ve come to value the opinions and words of wisdom of my elders. Even though I want to stick to my guns and make my own mistakes, their wisdom and life experience brings much needed insight.

This morning I ran into an older gentleman in the neighbourhood, and like usual, I was complaining about the normal things people complain about—my job, taking the ttc, not having a car…

He listened to me rant and rave about foolishnesses and then he schooled me. He said, “Nothing happens before its time” and then went on to tell me about few things that happened in his life. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this saying in my life, but for some reason this time it calmed me down. He went on to say that I shouldn’t stress myself over small things, and that I need to be patient.

I was extremely grateful that he got me out of my funk and put me in a good mood. I was happy that I was able to talk to him for a few minutes and feel relaxed before I went to work.

As I saw my bus approach the bus stop, I said goodbye to him. As I hopped onto the bus, he said goodbye, and in a fatherly tone, he scolded me for being late for the bus. I laughed and waved goodbye.

Thanks for the chat this morning!

peace & love,

michelle